In "The unwritten Rules of Social
Relationships" by Temple Grandin:
“Being
able to gauge when I'm turning someone off means being able to read their
facial cues and body language to some extent. This was a skill I had to develop
in myself; it wasn't automatic for me, nor is it for most people with ASD. It's
an important source of information and situational clues, and is a teachable
skill. Lots of good books and materials are on the market today that address
this issue in a concrete and fun way.”
Some of the turnoff signals:
If you say something to a person, the person lean back and her response becomes short and with long pause. You should stop right away whatever you're talking about and considering switching topics. It's body signal for you to know that she is not interested in talking about the topic or she is offended by what you're saying.
Some of the turnoff signals:
If you say something to a person, the person lean back and her response becomes short and with long pause. You should stop right away whatever you're talking about and considering switching topics. It's body signal for you to know that she is not interested in talking about the topic or she is offended by what you're saying.
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